This is not about blaming anyone. It is about reclaiming your identity. I hope you forgive your mother, and continue to love her, and stay in contact with her. But before you can forgive, you must first you must learn what she has done. Denial of reality is not an option.
It is about reclaiming your mind, your memory and your reality. it is all about you and reclaiming yourself.. Your destiny. Your agency. You cannot flourish in a world when you don’t know reality is.
Reality has been hidden from you. You have been deceived.
You have only been allowed to hear the filtered narrative from your mother. You never got to hear directly from your father, or directly from life experiences. It is time to reclaim your identity, and enter reality.
Please Email Madi at [email protected] . She can offer guidance and support as an alienated child herself. Bon chance.
Or Ryan Thomas. Another alienated child who can offer some real life experience.
Andrew Folkler, another alienated child has an intellectual insight into reunification and restoring his identity.